A Journey Worth Taking

This is an older poem I wrote for a dear friend of mine who was hitting their bottom. I am pleased to say that One Day at A Time, they've now celebrated 2 years of sobriety.

When I write I sometimes put myself in other's shoes.... I sometimes feel the pain and frustrations etc....And it comes out in my writing.... I find this allot and it ends up I switch from "I" to "you" or "you " to " I". I feel what the other person might feel and write down the emotions that they may be going through.

So here's another one for you , a friend, family member or just that person down the street....

We all know someone that has an addiction... One Day at a Time is what they say and Keep it Simple.... Let go and let God... All good words of advice with or without addictions...

A JOURNEY WORTH TAKING

Alcohol and drugs, Oh Boy we had fun!

I just wish I could remember all that I’ve done.

Me have a problem? Oh NO NOT I!

You watched what I used, unless you did spy

You couldn’t have found all my hiding places.

For I was smart and made you keep paces

I only use because of distress

Can’t you see all my troubles, my life is a mess

My life is complicated and you don’t understand

When I use I can cope, my life I command

My friends they drifted and I didn’t know why

I know now that they couldn’t watch me die

I was killing myself, I was in denial

How could you all put me on trial?

I’m in control is what I kept saying

Deep down inside I was secretly praying

My life had spun downward and out of control

My using and drinking could no longer console

My fears and beliefs all seemed to collide

I had to find someone in whom to confide

I talked to people “about someone I knew”

To test the waters, I asked only a few

Most of them knew I was talking about me

They mentioned AA and people to see

I still couldn’t face this disease that I had

I hadn’t hit bottom, I wasn’t “that bad”.

My family and friends gave me intervention

I sat, watched, and listened to all that was mentioned

I saw their concern and kind of agreed

I’d go talk to a councilor, at least that much I need

As soon as I went, my family did change

So I pretended my life to rearrange

But each time I went I silently knew

That what people had said was sad but true

My life was unmanageable, I was powerless

I still couldn’t stop, of this I confess

My bottom was close but I hadn’t yet hit

I still wanted control but had to submit

I’d picked up enough from my friends and family

And my councilor had said, from DT’s you can’t flee

Instead of that drink I always kept stashed

I picked up the phone and didn’t get smashed

On to my councilors and then to ER

Afraid as I was, I had come this far

I was were I needed to be at that time

My family and friends were waiting in line

I’ve reached my bottom, ready to start recovery

I can no longer think straight was all I could see

Into a program, now how did I get here?

No family, no friends, just me and my fear

The first days were hard and I wanted to leave

Then I remembered the past and had to believe

I was at my first step, admitting I was powerless

I honestly looked at my life, oh what a mess

I can’t do it alone. I must turn my life and my will

To a higher power and my new friend Bill

Bill W. and his steps, there are twelve

Instead of a drink, into them I must delve.

To learn how to live One Day at A Time

Keep It Simple, Turn it over, this is not a line

I’ve tools that I’m learning that help me to cope

Like cleaning out my life with water and soap

Taking care of myself, staying healthy and strong

I must change old habits and get rid of what’s wrong

There are temptations around all that I’ve known

Instead of a drink I can now pick up the phone

Help is so near I just have to give in

Quit holding back and let my new life begin

I can pick up the phone and call my sponsor

I need a meeting is what they concur

I listen and keep what I need, leaving the rest

For my friends in AA they are the best

They help keep me honest and learn not to hide

My feelings and problems deep down inside

For if I go back to my old way of life

I’ll only get back all my misery and strife

I’m still afraid for my family and friends

They won’t understand as I make my amends

But all I can do is keep doing my best

Let Go and Let God and He’ll do the rest

I wish family and friends could learn as I’ve learned

To A-lanon and Al-ateen that right they have earned.

To learn how to change and then how to cope

Co-dependent’s no fun but there’s always hope.

I learned I can’t change anyone but me

With tools they can learn, they’ll find their key

To forgive and to love without regret

For through all of this a new life I have met

I’m learning to live, be happy, have fun

For One Day at A Time, by life's just begun

I look in the mirror and like what I see

As living this program has set me free

The tools and the steps and friends that I make

Will help me survive for my life is at stake

I remember my past but on that I can’t dwell

For I no longer want to live that old hell

I can not go back to the life I once had

I must move forward and for that I am glad

If I get moody and start to offend

Remind me of AA for that’s my new friend

I must change to keep sober and straight

Each new day I do count and celebrate

I think back on my life and that first intervention

And now I can’t wait for my first AA convention

With help and humility I’m learning to cope

For instead of despair, I now have new HOPE.

Know as your reading, I wish you the best

Take what you need, and leave the rest.

Written with Love and Light and Hope

Nina P. 1/6/2006