Polygamy can be exist when a male married more than one female as his wife or a female married more than one male as her husband or a mixture of both conditions….
Do you agree with polygamy?
I think most of us do not want to see this happening but, can we control all these?
As what most of them saying, love is uncontrollable…
We cannot control our feelings and we do not want to throw our first spouse away…
Anyways, in the context of polygamy, there are more male marrying more than one female compared to female marrying more than one husband….
Why is this situation appeared?
Is it because there are more female in the society in nature?
OR
Is it because the men want to show their masculinity?
OR
Is it the men want to show how much their savings are that they can actually sustain 2, 3, 4 or 5 families?
Why are all these happening?
Can we stop all these?
You might want to tell me that we can actually stop it but, polygamy has an ancient history and it is not that if I would like to have one to one policy then it can be worked…
However, polygamy is sometimes an excuse for those who want to have more than one partner…
Either to a female or male…
It is a kind of selfish acts when s/he wants to have another partner and do not want to dump the previous one….
There are lots of human kinds in the earth.. I should better name it as the world….
As long as you are willing to stay on the polygamy society and environment, you are willing to be the first or the second or the third mistress or mister…
I don’t think anyone of us have to right to stop you as this is what you wish and we can only stay aside and watch what will happen on next….
At the end here…
Good luck to those who are living in the polygamy environment and to those who wants to step into this conflict, do think twice and I think there is always someone who will support you somewhere….
Choose on what you wish and do not feel regret when time comes… be responsible on your own decision….
All the best…
Cheers... (:
Showing posts with label Gender. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gender. Show all posts
Sunday, April 26, 2009
Monday, April 20, 2009
...Third Gender...
There will be no such thing as third sex but there is something that we can name it as third gender....
India’s government had put a third column in their citizens' identity card and the column is labelled as E which stands for Eunuch which is the term used for cross dresses....
I was quite amazed and shocked when I read this through an article in today's The Sun paper....
Cross dresses had been a long history and it had occurred long time ago during the Mesopotamia time when Hatshepsut wore a fake beard....
Time has changed and came to a different world when everyone can actually take transvestite easily....
They no longer look at them with a weird look...
They can now view them as someone normal...
We are taking all taking for granted as time comes...
When we are used to it, we no longer think that much and just accept it...
I wonder when Malaysia can be so open minded and have a third column in our identification card....
Will that be happen one day??
Who knows….
Reference : The Sun (20th April 2009)
India’s government had put a third column in their citizens' identity card and the column is labelled as E which stands for Eunuch which is the term used for cross dresses....
I was quite amazed and shocked when I read this through an article in today's The Sun paper....
Cross dresses had been a long history and it had occurred long time ago during the Mesopotamia time when Hatshepsut wore a fake beard....
Time has changed and came to a different world when everyone can actually take transvestite easily....
They no longer look at them with a weird look...
They can now view them as someone normal...
We are taking all taking for granted as time comes...
When we are used to it, we no longer think that much and just accept it...
I wonder when Malaysia can be so open minded and have a third column in our identification card....
Will that be happen one day??
Who knows….
Reference : The Sun (20th April 2009)
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
War
There is war everywhere in the world now…
When can all the war stop??
When can we actually have a peaceful life in every single corner??
Well, I do not have the power and I am lack of knowledge on talking about war here compared to many of them outside of my world….
Why am I talking about war since I am not capable to do so?
Well, I would like to point out something on.....
When can all the war stop??
When can we actually have a peaceful life in every single corner??
Well, I do not have the power and I am lack of knowledge on talking about war here compared to many of them outside of my world….
Why am I talking about war since I am not capable to do so?
Well, I would like to point out something on.....
...War between women…
The women’s fight…. Lol….
Back to traditional lifestyle where patriarchy is very strong in the society…
They can have more than one wives and if you have only one wife, the man will stare at you in a weird way while the woman will be jealous of your wife…
Either you are willing or not, you have to obey your parents’ order if they want you to have concubine… maybe not concubine but concubinessssssssss…
In the olden days, if the first wife could not born a baby boy, and after several pregnancies and all of them are baby girl, the parents will urge their son to have a second wife..
I think I need not explain much on these as almost everyone of us knows the meaning hidden…
They do not know that women are not the only one who could and should be blamed as the science and technology in the olden days are not that developed yet…
Well, back to the topic… war…
When there are more than one woman holding and sitting in a family, there will be internal affairs like what the company nowadays have…
They will have to fight with each and other to grab the husband’s 'heart'…
The one who have a baby boy born will have a bigger power…
The one who knows the best way to lure the man will be sitting in a higher position…
The one who can actually acts the best will be having a bigger authority….
All these had come to one conclusion….
The fighting among women….
The women themselves fight among themselves to win the higher status in the family…
If they are married to a richer family, they will be aiming for the heritage that her husband has….
If she is from a wealthy family and she is helping her husband’s family in any ways, she will have the major power and sometimes her parents-in-law need to listen to her too…
Well, if her husband is getting the second wife, she has no choice but to accept it if she cannot be able to born a baby boy….
Marrying another wife for her husband does not mean that she is accepting the facts that had been built under the patriarchy society…
The second wife normally will be exploited by the first wife….
When we are talking about gender inequality, we were talking about how man dominates, exploits women….
Why not we as women stand together and stop all the war among women…
If women are uniting, women saying no to the man who ask them to be the second wife or to be his mistress who is not under protected of the law, how can the man have so many concubines…
We used to say women are not treated equally under those circumstances…
I could not deny that there is a lot of gender inequality cases found in the society…
But, man is not the one to be blamed sometimes…
Maybe woman fighting for their position in the family is not a wrong thing… But, woman actually can stop all these war....
The women’s fight…. Lol….
Back to traditional lifestyle where patriarchy is very strong in the society…
They can have more than one wives and if you have only one wife, the man will stare at you in a weird way while the woman will be jealous of your wife…
Either you are willing or not, you have to obey your parents’ order if they want you to have concubine… maybe not concubine but concubinessssssssss…
In the olden days, if the first wife could not born a baby boy, and after several pregnancies and all of them are baby girl, the parents will urge their son to have a second wife..
I think I need not explain much on these as almost everyone of us knows the meaning hidden…
They do not know that women are not the only one who could and should be blamed as the science and technology in the olden days are not that developed yet…
Well, back to the topic… war…
When there are more than one woman holding and sitting in a family, there will be internal affairs like what the company nowadays have…
They will have to fight with each and other to grab the husband’s 'heart'…
The one who have a baby boy born will have a bigger power…
The one who knows the best way to lure the man will be sitting in a higher position…
The one who can actually acts the best will be having a bigger authority….
All these had come to one conclusion….
The fighting among women….
The women themselves fight among themselves to win the higher status in the family…
If they are married to a richer family, they will be aiming for the heritage that her husband has….
If she is from a wealthy family and she is helping her husband’s family in any ways, she will have the major power and sometimes her parents-in-law need to listen to her too…
Well, if her husband is getting the second wife, she has no choice but to accept it if she cannot be able to born a baby boy….
Marrying another wife for her husband does not mean that she is accepting the facts that had been built under the patriarchy society…
The second wife normally will be exploited by the first wife….
When we are talking about gender inequality, we were talking about how man dominates, exploits women….
Why not we as women stand together and stop all the war among women…
If women are uniting, women saying no to the man who ask them to be the second wife or to be his mistress who is not under protected of the law, how can the man have so many concubines…
We used to say women are not treated equally under those circumstances…
I could not deny that there is a lot of gender inequality cases found in the society…
But, man is not the one to be blamed sometimes…
Maybe woman fighting for their position in the family is not a wrong thing… But, woman actually can stop all these war....
Well, look at this...
The most important thing for a woman is her family….
Woman who has traditional thinking will put her family in the first place….
They want their power to be on hand and they want themselves to be seen….
They do not want their husband to ‘divide’ his heart to a bigger portion to another woman….
It is the same theory if we turn it into another way….
A man in his post will be more likely to wish his boss to see him more, appreciate his work more..
He would prefer he himself to be at a higher position and have a better and usable power..
He does not want to be under someone else forever….
It is under the same principle but we are looking at the different way….
Things are fixed and rounded…
We can actually apply everything here and there….
The government wants all the races to unite to defeat the enemy of the country….
Woman can actually unite and stand together to fight back the man if they want too…
I know everyone of us know that women are strong and capable to do so….
They can actually act better than men if they want to..
Do you want to see all these happen?
Or remaining in the same situation, naming the woman staying at home should be better??
Or we can either have a discussion among the man and woman in the family to decide all these….
All these can be discussed and be ended up with a nice and perfect conclusion without war….
So, why war??
Isn’t that starting a war is actually something foolish??
The most important thing for a woman is her family….
Woman who has traditional thinking will put her family in the first place….
They want their power to be on hand and they want themselves to be seen….
They do not want their husband to ‘divide’ his heart to a bigger portion to another woman….
It is the same theory if we turn it into another way….
A man in his post will be more likely to wish his boss to see him more, appreciate his work more..
He would prefer he himself to be at a higher position and have a better and usable power..
He does not want to be under someone else forever….
It is under the same principle but we are looking at the different way….
Things are fixed and rounded…
We can actually apply everything here and there….
The government wants all the races to unite to defeat the enemy of the country….
Woman can actually unite and stand together to fight back the man if they want too…
I know everyone of us know that women are strong and capable to do so….
They can actually act better than men if they want to..
Do you want to see all these happen?
Or remaining in the same situation, naming the woman staying at home should be better??
Or we can either have a discussion among the man and woman in the family to decide all these….
All these can be discussed and be ended up with a nice and perfect conclusion without war….
So, why war??
Isn’t that starting a war is actually something foolish??
So, stop war…. Create peace…..
;0)
Monday, April 13, 2009
Gender
How do you define gender??
What plays in your mind if you see a muscular man wearing a skirt?
Will you marry a girl who does not know how to do domestic work?
Will you let your offspring follows your wife’s last name?
There are strict rule saying that women should be sexually inactive (once upon a time)..
What do you think about this?
Women who are sexually active are classified as ‘slags’ whereas those who are not had been classified as ‘drags’… (nowadays)
How can you explain this statement??
Do you mind if your spouse is not virgin when you marry her?
Traditional woman should know how to cook and sew…
However, good chef and good tailor in the commercial line are always male….
Why is it so??
I dare you to answer all the above ??
What plays in your mind if you see a muscular man wearing a skirt?
Will you marry a girl who does not know how to do domestic work?
Will you let your offspring follows your wife’s last name?
There are strict rule saying that women should be sexually inactive (once upon a time)..
What do you think about this?
Women who are sexually active are classified as ‘slags’ whereas those who are not had been classified as ‘drags’… (nowadays)
How can you explain this statement??
Do you mind if your spouse is not virgin when you marry her?
Traditional woman should know how to cook and sew…
However, good chef and good tailor in the commercial line are always male….
Why is it so??
I dare you to answer all the above ??
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