GENTLE

Gracious and Good
Engaging, willing to listen
Nice to others, regardless of who they are
Taking the time to move at another's pace
Loving
Endearing by acts of kindness and good-will

But let it be the inward adorning and beauty of the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible and unfading charm of a gentle and peaceful spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God.
(1 Peter 3:4)

*from amazing book : "God's Little Devotional Book For Men"